“More than years of trying? And still no baby?” This is how
conversations usually go when someone asks why we don’t have children. If you’re like me then you smile politely,
explain your situation, all the while wishing that the indignant, crass
individual who has dared to ask such a bold question would just spontaneously
combust before the conversation reaches its end.
My name is Catherine and I have endometriosis and ovarian
dysfunction. Unlike most women on the
TTC roller coaster, I’m actually better off because of my infertility. No, I’m not a Pollyanna who is choosing to
see this through the lens of a rose colored glass. I’m serious.
I am healthier because of my infertility.
A year into our TTC journey, my husband, Frank, and I went
to see my OBGYN to see what our options were.
After much discussion, we decided to pursue IUI. We were told that it would bypass our
diagnosis of “unexplained infertility.”
The first cycle was so exciting, until the Clomid took effect. Then well, I looked like myself, but
internally, I was possessed by a screaming banshee with no filter between the
brain and the mouth! Instead of telling my husband to pick up his socks as I
normally would, I screamed “God damn it
you son of a bitch! Why do I always have
to clean up after you?!?” The Clomid joy
was quickly replaced by the joy of the HCG shot. I have never felt so terrible in all of my
life! The first time wasn’t bad, I just
felt lousy, got covered in acne, and lost all of my get up and go. Then my period came, and we started all over
again, more Clomid and more mood swings.
The second HCG shot had me in bed for almost two days, my energy was
drained. I was thrilled! I was certain I
was pregnant. And I was dead wrong.
Round three meant more Clomid, follicles that didn’t mature, a second
dose of clomid, and by the time I should have gotten the third HCG shot, the
effects of number two still hadn’t subsided.
I looked at the HCG vial on the counter and decided that there was no
way making myself ill could make my body a nurturing place for a baby to
grow.
Shortly after making the decision, I shared it with my
friend Jordan, who had been supportive through our infertility struggles. After listening to me spill my guts and
confess that I couldn’t bring myself to go through the third round of IUI
(which meant IVF was off limits for us since it meant more intense medications
than I was taking with IUI), Jordan mentioned that she and her husband had been
trying as well, but they weren’t using Artificial Reproductive Technology
(ART), they were using NaProTechnology (NaPro).
She explained that a woman’s body sends messages regarding fertility
through bio-markers and that NaPro doctors teach their patients to chart these
bio-markers, and then use the charts to identify problems that are keeping you
from conceiving.
After talking this over with my husband, Frank, we decided
we had nothing to lose. We contacted our
local NaPro doctor’s office and he agreed to accept me as a patient. While we waited for the appointment to
arrive, I met with a charting consultant and started to chart my
bio-markers.
At my first meeting with my NaPro doctor, he read my chart
and told me he was 90% sure I had endometriosis, an autoimmune disease, and
that it was the cause of our infertility.
I was floored! I had asked my ART
doctor if my long cycles, heavy bleeding, and prolonged bleeding might have
something to do with our infertility and I had been told NO! He actually told me it was “normal” for
me. Yet here was my NaPro doctor telling
me it was the cause of our infertility and that he could fix it!!! He patiently explained all of the options to
me and gave me a choice of surgeons. He
answered all of my questions and spent over an hour with me! This was all covered by my health insurance,
my only out of pocket expense was my $15 copay!
Three months later, we drove four hours to the NaPro surgeon
my NaPro doctor recommended. I had a
laparoscopy and the doctor found stage 2 endometriosis which was wrapped around
my ovaries, tubes, and colon. We stayed
in a hotel for a few days, then I got checked out by the surgeon and we were on
our way home. Typical recovery time from
a laparoscopy is 6 weeks, however because I went to a NaPro surgeon, my
recovery took only two weeks! I
experienced less pain on the day after surgery than I experienced two days
before surgery!
It’s nine months after surgery now, and my immune system has
calmed down and my body is no longer attacking itself. We’re in what my NaPro doctor calls “prime
time for conception”. I have ovarian
dysfunction which we’re treating with vitamins and letrozole. My hormonal levels are within the optimum
range. We’ll continue trying for the
next twelve months. The most amazing
thing is that my body is functioning normally!
No more heavy periods, no more intense pain, no more mood swings
etc. My hormone levels are in the
“effective range”. My peak minus one
estradiol levels are between 300 and 400, and my peak plus seven estradiol
levels are between 180 and 140, and my progesterone is between 15 and 28. All of these numbers indicate the conception
is indeed possible! We now have normal
odds of conceiving, and that’s pretty amazing!
A bit about the author of this post:
Catherine Sterling lives with her husband Frank and their
four furbabies. She is a full time
teacher and part time blogger, who looks forward to one day sharing the news
that she has conceived and carried a baby to term thanks to the help of
NaProTechnology. She is blessed to have
the support of her amazing friend Jordan, her NaProTechnology mentor and sister
from another mother. Read more of her writing at http://www.babystepsandtears.com
wow, this is amazing! I hadn't ever heard of NaPro Technology!
ReplyDeleteI've never heard of this technology before! Not sure if they have it in Canada, but I'm absolutely going to look and see!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing!
Wow that's really interesting!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your story. I hope that the next few months will bring you that long awaited pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteWow what an amazing story!
ReplyDeleteThanks for all the positive comments, ladies! If you have questions, please don't hesitate to ask! I'll do my best to answer them and if I can, I'll do my best to connect you with someone who can. I also have to share some joy right now. My dear friend, Jordan, who turned me on to NaProTechnology just gave birth to her baby girl this morning! I am so pleased to share in her joy. May her joy give us all hope that our day will come! Baby dust and prayers to you all!
ReplyDeleteLove, Catherine
www.babystepsandtears.com